Halal Relationship in Islam
There are no boys or girls who do not like sex. Everyone does - and this is the fitrat of man. Allah has made this sexuality between men and women as a rule. However, He has set a boundary. He has asked them to get married. And He has specified with whom these sexual relations are legal and with whom they are illegal.
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Suppose - eating pigs - it is haraam for Muslims. So when you hear the name, a devotion comes - a hatred comes! A religious person will vomit immediately after playing. It is unsuitable for him to eat.
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But look! Pigs are eaten by infidels - they eat with gusto - they don't hate it.
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Think again: dog meat will taste like goat meat! But even if a Muslim eats goat meat with great relish, he will vomit in hatred and devotion when he talks about eating dogs.
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The question is why?
.Because there is a standard set by the Muslims here. He has already set in his mind that this food is unsuitable, haram, forbidden. As a result, hatred towards this food is created. Even hearing the name makes the body feel disgusted.
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When a Muslim sets the standard for sex - who he thinks sex with is haraam - with whom it is permissible - then the matter automatically sets in his mind.
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Consequences: He understands that it is haraam for a Muslim to look badly on any girl other than his wife or maid. Sin.
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This is how he sees things - when these fantasies come to a stranger woman, hatred is created in him - devotion goes away - he feels bad for himself. Get out of here very quickly.
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The same is true for a girl - when she sets boundaries so that no one can touch her except her husband, because it is forbidden in Islam! If he imagines such a person, it will be a sin for him to commit adultery, then he will surely consider it a crime to think of strangers.
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When a woman thinks it is a crime to think of other men, she will have a sense of self-worth. If she understands that another man thinks of her, she will have a sense of hatred. She'll feel bad.
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But if a girl does not know the limits of this halal and haram by herself. If she does not observe these limits herself, then these things will seem normal to her like eating pork.
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Today I was looking at a post - class boys masturbate thinking of classmate girls. But it is also true that many girls masturbate thinking about such boys.
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There is no sense of self-worth among boys and girls. There is no fear of God in anyone! No one has the consciousness to keep himself holy.
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Do they want to present themselves in the court of God in a holy state?
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If there was, then self-esteem would be created.
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A girl has sexual desire at the age of 14. A boy is made in the middle of 14/15.
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The age I mentioned - at this age sex is intensely felt - is a time of curiosity as well as intense thirst for satisfying physical needs.
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For this reason, it has been described in the hadith as a duty of the father to get married at this age. And it has been threatened that if the children are not given in marriage, then if they commit sins, these sins will continue to be added to the father's record.
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Folks - 14/15 year old children are secretly thinking badly - masturbating masturbating - secretly saying bad things at night - going to the dark restaurant, all the virtues will be added to the father's time. Even if the child commits adultery, the father will have to stand in the line of adultery on the Day of Resurrection.
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Those who say that the mentality of girls / boys at such a young age is not suitable for marriage are these fao arguments.
Rather, adolescence is the most important time for a child's marriage. I wouldn't be surprised if a boy doesn't want to get married after 30 years. But a 15 year old boy needs to get married much more than a 30 year old man.
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How many of those who have been unmarried for 30/35 years can say - in these 30 years they have not committed any sin related to sex? In your own case, how many years have you been involved in sexual sins? How many times a week do you sin even if you do not sin every day?
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Today, boys are thinking about girls, most girls are happy to hear it! Many girls like to show their figure to others.
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The first reason is: the fear of God is not in the heart. If the fear of God is not created in the heart, then these incidents should not be bad for any girl.
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The second thing is: not getting married on time - brother sex is a daily necessity like food. If there are no physical problems, then men and women need it every day. If they don't get married, teenagers suffer from this fantasy all day long. Think about the situation of those who are not religious. So trying to stop all this without getting married means leaving the sea Iye impossible to prevent the dam of the pond.
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The third reason is: just as the boys are spoiled - there are those among the girls who do not bother to think about him without scattering lightning.
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So the brother stops regretting that even after knowing the girls, why don't they feel bad - don't they feel self-esteem ??
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The answer is that religious jazbai was not created among these people - devotion to haram halal did not come to mind. Imani Gairat doesn't feel like it. Besides, as they are not married, they themselves are in a fantasy about all this. As a result, it will continue. The solution is in Islam.
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We have to awaken the spirit of faith in us. We have to make the devotion of halal haram so that vomiting comes when we think of something haram ..
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And this is possible only when we have faith
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